You Were Never the One (But He Was)

Lyrics

Verse 1
I thought I’d heal when I heard your voice
Like closure was a sacred choice
But it wasn’t time, or space, or truth
That fixed the part you never knew
It wasn’t books, or deep self-love
It came like rain I’d never dreamed of
In a chapel I had wandered past
I found the First who loved me last

Pre-Chorus
You saw the surface of my storm
He saw the wreck beneath the form
You left when I had nothing left
But He held on through every breath

Chorus
You were never the one to rescue me
You were just a part of what I used to need
But grace came slow, then all at once
Not in your arms, but in the Son
You said I was hard to love and run
But He stayed. And called me “chosen one”
So I’m not bitter, but I’m finally free—
You were never the one
But Jesus was for me

Verse 2
I used to think my worth was earned
By who stayed or what I learned
But mercy found me on my knees
Not begging you, but begging peace
I wish you knew that kind of love
Not transaction—but a flood
Not “get it right,” but “come as you are”
The kind that heals a shattered heart

Pre-Chorus
I blamed you for what broke in me
But now I see more honestly
I ran from truth, I built my throne
But He pursued and called me home

Chorus
You were never the one to rescue me
You were just a page in His redemptive theme
He used the fall, He used the ache
To draw me close, to help me break
You said I was too much to trust
But He held every piece of dust
So I forgive you—I’ve been set free—
You were never the one
But He bled for me

Bridge
And if you’re still searching
Still replaying what went wrong
Just know redemption doesn't wait
For you to prove you belong
You don’t need to climb
He already came down
You just have to stop running
And be found

Final Chorus
You were never the one to rescue me
But now I see how even pain can lead
He wrote His name into my scars
Turned what we lost into new art
I thought I needed you to stay
But Someone better made a way
So here’s the truth I hope you see—
You were never the one
But He still can be

Outro
Not bitter
Not waiting
Just grateful for what’s been undone
You were never the one
But Jesus’s always been the One